I was talking recently about someone in my professional life who I am really proud of. Besides the fact that she is a friend and her success is great news, her success is even more special because I think I played a partial role in it.
As a leader or manager, this feels great. As a friend, it feels great. As a human being who loves to help others along the way, it feels great.
Is there someone in your life who you can say the same thing about?
When we study leadership, we focus on the people we lead. But so often, that focus goes to the successful completion of the work or projects or strategies that we are working on. But what about the individuals themselves and their successes. Great leaders take pride in their people – not just the current state but the future state as well. Where they end up. Where they go next. The awards, recognition and promotions that came along the way
As a leader or manager, take pride in developing talent. Be proud of them as they walk out the door to something bigger and better. You can replace them – get over it. Hopefully, if you did a great job in training, coaching and mentoring, they will recognize the role you played. But if not – so what. You can still be proud of your results.